A Time for Everything: 50 Years From Now

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

There is an appointed time for everything, and a time for every affair under the heavens. A time to give birth, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to uproot the plant. A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to tear down, and a time to build. A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance. A time to scatter stones, and a time to gather them; a time to embrace, and a time to be far from embraces. A time to seek, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away. A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to be silent, and a time to speak. A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.

            In Ecclesiastes we read there is an appointed time for everything and a time for every affair under the heavens. 50 years from now when I look back at the appointed times in my life, I don’t believe I will be concerned with the things I did or didn’t do in my youth, but rather the type I of person that I was and who I became. 50 years from now, when I reflect on my life I hope I see that I was a faithful servant of the Lord and a beloved disciple. I hope to see that I was a person who was accountable for her actions and owned up to her mistakes. That I loved with my whole heart and always got back up when people or life knocked me down. I pray that I will be a compassionate person and someone who had the courage to be vulnerable and honest. I pray I never lose my resiliency, or my motivation to serve and to share God’s wisdom with others. I hope to see that I took chances and never lost my sense of adventure that I laughed more times than I cried, and that I was a good friend and loved one. I hope to see that I was faithful and loyal and generous and forgiving.

What do you hope to see when you look back at your life 50 years from now?

            As it says in Ecclesiastes, there is a time for every affair under the heavens. In our lives, there will be pain and sadness, there will be joy and laughter, weddings, funerals, and graduations. Life will give us cause for great joy and celebration, and also moments of despair and weakness. During all of these moments, both good and bad, it’s important to remember the values and key character traits that you want to always hold true no matter what life throws your way. Knowing who you are is important, knowing what you stand for is important, having a foundation of faith is important. I believe that it is these qualities that will matter to us 50 years from now, not necessarily the things we accomplished. So take some time and answer the question, knowing what you stand for and the person you want to see in the mirror 50 years from now can help you work on becoming that person today. After all who wants to have regrets 50 years from now, or look in the mirror and see you never became the person you dreamed you’d be.